Which of the following is an amphoteric oxide?

Which one of the following is correct relating to diborane $(B_2H_6)$?

Borax is converted into crystalline boron by the following steps :
$Borax$ $\xrightarrow{HCl} (X)$ $\xrightarrow{\Delta} B_2O_3$ $\xrightarrow{\Delta, Y} B$
Identify $X$ and $Y$ respectively.

The correct statement is:

Given below are two statements:
Statement $I$: Boron is extremely hard,indicating its high lattice energy.
Statement $II$: Boron has the highest melting and boiling point compared to its other group members.
In the light of the above statements,choose the most appropriate answer from the options given below:

Boron is unable to form $BF_{6}^{3-}$ ion. Explain.